everybody who comes at dean is like “you’re so desperate you want people to love you you don’t want to be alone” like
how are those even insults
"i know your secret shame, dean: you’re a living human with feelings ha ha you don’t want to live alone in a swamp like shrek you want to have friends wow who does that you’re pathetic i bet you want to hold hands and make somebody dinner"
Life Tip: Don’t allow Tumblr to become your primary/only source for morality. Remember, this is the site which had many people genuinely believe that they can get unlimited chocolate just by slicing it a certain way. I know I certainly wouldn’t want these people dictating my worldview for me.
i hate when a teacher is genuinely funny and i’m the only one in the entire classroom that laughs at their jokes since everybody i go to school with are distasteful heathens
Anonymous asked: "so if they come up to you in public and say “you look nice today” what they mean is “will you have sex with me” " -- that has GOT to be the biggest pile of hyperbole I have ever read. I never grew up believing that about men. I never grew up believing all men are rapists either. If anyone actually thinks the way it is written in the quote they need to see a psychiatrist for therapy. Fast. I'm dead serious. Those are delusional and schizophrenic thoughts.
congratulations on your strawman argument here! So nice to see that a generalized simplification description of unspoken subtext and social pressures means I literally think that every man who tells me I look nice is saying they want to have sex with me in such a forward and direct way. Truly.
Also, thank you for the ableism.
That said, please refer back to an ability for critical thinking and read that again. Women are socialized to believe men are ravenous sexual creatures… this is what a rape culture does… I mean the fact that that ridiculous “7 seconds” statistic is so widely known and used to excuse shitty male behavior is my favorite example… but like I’m rewatching Scrubs, and ALL the male characters have this hyper sex drive and are hyper interested in sex and it’s this thing… it’s made VERY clear that when a man compliments a woman (in this show), he is complimenting her sexually. This ideology is quite pervasive in our society.
I’m assuming since you added yourself into this, you won’t mind if I go ahead and continue with that. Honestly tell me that you don’t feel a more sexual SUBTEXT to a compliment from a man than a compliment from a woman? Because I promise you you do, the sexual subtext is written directly into our societal gender scripts.